1. Organize a test trip
Organize a short trip to a nearby destination, to a nice hotel, and that way you'll get an idea of ​​what awaits you.
2. Use your strengths to plan
Instead of arguing over who will do what, divide your responsibilities according to each person's strengths.
3. Check in advance that the destination meets the needs of both
When choosing a holiday destination, it is important that it suits both of you. Before making your final decision, do your research carefully and above all, be fair. If one of you is a golf fanatic and the other loves sightseeing, then don't book a week's vacation at a golf resort. If the vacation is a surprise, consider the other person's interests as well.
4. Avoid too tight a schedule
If your schedule is too busy, then it can easily turn into a chore.
One of you might be hungover and want to sleep in a little more, or the other day you might want to relax by walking around the city instead of going to a museum. It is better to adopt a relaxed schedule rather than a rigid schedule.
5. Compromise
There should be no leader in your vacation, no matter who planned it. You are both equal. Every decision should be shared. If you're a picky eater, try being adventurous. Likewise, if you hate sports but your partner loves it, agree to accompany them to a game.